Growth & Appearance:
You look the same, yet somehow
you look so different, so grown up. You are still a skinny thing, but continue
to grow so tall. In your swimming class you are the youngest but the tallest. I
wonder if you will continue to be tall. On both my mother's and father's side
of the family there are some very tall people. So maybe you get height form me?
Eating:
Pretty much if it is on a
plate you will eat it. Though there are 'rules'. Sandwiches must have the
crusts cut off and cut into triangle, definitely not squares. Food on your
plate should not touch. Even odder is you will eat a caesar salad if all of the
ingredients are on your plate separately, mixed as a salad you will reject it. You
do this with a few dishes. An OCD gobble guts is pretty much what you are.
Talking:
In the last two weeks you
have said so many new words. It is like you finally decided you will talk.
Though strange thing is, a lot new words such as bath, pasta are said in a
whisper until you are confident with them. Now you seem to want to chat all of
the time.
Sleeping:
You have decided that you are
going to fight every single nap/sleep. I know you are at the point you don't
need your morning one, but you are in such a better mood all day if you do have
this morning nap.
Development:
In the last two weeks you
have suddenly become so grown up. You listen to me and respond with logic. If
you have a melt down it is down to three things, lack of sleep, me being at
work that day, or no one being able to understand what you are trying to say.
Other than that you are the
class clown. You crack me up. You are one of the funniest people I have every
known. You also will do/repeat things to get a laugh.
Your fearless energy is
getting so full on, you climb and jump, scaring the crap out of me on a regular
basis.
Favourites:
The chickens and the backyard
in general. You will spend hours out there digging in the dirt with me. You
will even collect my weeds and wheelbarrow them to the compost heap for me.
The evening walk
has become a highlight for you. After dinner, we go for a walk (no phone, and
no cameras allowed) you will pick the direction and set off at a pace that is a
slow jog for me. Some nights you walk for up to an hour, some nights only fifteen
minutes. But you come home covered in sweat and so happy.
You may hate me later for mentioning this, but you have developed
a 'bum' obsession. You love coming up to either me or your Daddy and putting
your bum on us. In bed if you can jump/sit on us you thinking it is great. You
have also started farting on command, you with ask us to pick you up and then
fart on our arms/hips and then you crack yourself up laughing so hard.
Cooking with me is another favourite thing of yours, which makes
me want to bake/cook more often as you enjoy helping so much.
How I am thinking/Feeling
Sad. Other stuff is going on
and it is adding up to make me feel sad. You are growing up so fast. You will
put your hand on my cheek and give me a kiss saying "Mummum" and my
heart melts, can't believe the tiny dancer in my belly so full of energy, is now
the grown up toddler who is so full of love and life. Jarvis you are so very
very loved.
He's so gorgeously cute. I love watching him grow up here. Sometimes he's so darned cute I wish I could snuggle him too! Is that the clucky thing kicking in?? :D
ReplyDeleteJarv is a good snuggler! Yes I think it is the clucky thing kicking in. Well it is for me, I look at my children and want a dozen, okay well at least half a dozen more
ReplyDeleteWhat a little dude. Sounds like you have your garden back Julie, weren't you sad to be saying goodbye to one not all that long ago? I'm envious of your chicken ownership, first thing I'm doing when the opportunity arises.
ReplyDeleteHe has grown so much. Every time I see these photos of him it's hard to imagine he was a baby not too long ago when I started reading your blog. How cute about the eating habits though. Miss 9 doesn't want her food touching either and if she can help it she'll eat one ingredient at a time. Over the past few days I've found that I've been letting her hug and cuddle for as long as she wants. Letting her hold my hand whenever. I've realised that perhaps soon she won't want me as involved or as close so I'm making more effort to enjoy it all while I can and while she lets me xoxox
ReplyDeleteWe moved in September and I lost my old garden (two years of work) this one is slowly slowly getting to where I want it to be. We are lucky the owners let us have chickens. The eldest produces on egg a day, the two younger ones will be laying soon
ReplyDeleteThe only other person I know who separates their food is Tamika's father. Interesting to know you also have an OCD child. Take every moment you can, all too soon they grow up and you have a 21 year old adult on your hands
ReplyDeleteOh he is one special little guy and so much character!!! I hope the sadness fades soon or tat whatever it is that is making you sad disappears and leaves you to enjoy that precious little guy in peace xx
ReplyDeleteWe all think he is a full on character, and so too do most people who meet him
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